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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

12.06.2025 03:14

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

I will be 64.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

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I did it because my mum asked me too!

I said to her

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

How do I convince flat earthers that the earth is round?

My family never makes their pension either.

My life is so biszare .

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

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Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

Why am I sweating so much when I try to do anything?

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

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Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

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I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

All the time i was locked up.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

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I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

Put me off passion for life!!

The only rule us 5 kids had .

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And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

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I had hoped to write a book about this .

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

She loved him until the end.

Can you write a letter to your first love without mentioning his/her name?

When she asked me how she looked .

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

So, i spoilt her more .

We all went to grammer schools

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

I write beautiful poetry .

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

She married twice! .

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

This is how, and why children get BPD.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

She found it foreign!.

Im still living with it.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

I was very sick at this time too.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

But, we were locked up after school.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

Especially a lifetime of it.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

I was seconnd youngest,

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

Ive learnt so much.

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He was dying to do it , i knew.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

She was in good health!

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

As i do to all so called friends.?

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

Was to survive, this bastard.

I never cut or harmed myself..

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

Im dying but, im not bitter.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

He resisted the act ,that day.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

But ive been too sick for many years..

I think the readers, may guess!

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

He knew the spot.

My mum and dad in the seventies!

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

(And it was in our own minds.)

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

This is soul school!.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

I couldn’t, believe it.

So whats the point in blame.

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

And who doesn’t know suffering?

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

Who then, do I blame.?

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

I was 9 years of age.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

And i lived it daily.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

I don,t even have a pension.

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

One cannot live in the past .

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

I was scared of men, in general

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

Would this be the day?

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

What did i know ?

But it wasn’t much.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

It was going to be , some day.

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

I could never make a relationship work though!

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

We were not on the streets..

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

Why did i forgive my father ?

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

I have no regrets .

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

I waited trembling.

Comes on , in middle age.

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

She wouldn,t have been !

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

On the 31st of Jan this month .

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.